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4月的第2 班, 有4/9歡樂的家長聚會, 隨著第1集進入尾聲, 我交代了以前第1班也交代過的事。 (看看這些跳舞影片,我好想跟這些媽咪再聚在一起開趴紓壓喔! 一群有共同話題的女人聚在一起解放,嘰哩瓜啦的一定很熱鬧~ ) 這相簿有第2班孩子們認真學習的身影….再回顧他們的錄影作業,很感動….他們和媽咪們都持續努力著~ 因為作業量太大,只能幫每位留下1小片段….多年以後,他們在這相簿區裡找, 絕對找的到! 另外, 我勸退了一位孩子。 有些事會發生也不是偶然,從一開始的說明會, 我就提….只有落實成寒教材的方法, 才有辦法超前學習到我替這實驗班訂的目標, 我也是要找能執行的家庭一起實驗…..既然要學成寒教材, 卻不用成寒教材裡規定的方法學,當家長鬆了, 我3年來一直講, 一直叮嚀,一直提醒,仍無法改善, 最終雖然讓家長不諒解, 我仍堅持作對的事。其實,有很多地方, 很多教學法,很多教材都有很大的功效, 換了地方, 只要家長持續在家有督促驗收, 而不是把責任丟給補習班去盯成績,孩子的英文不好也難。而這兩班實驗班的小小孩學成寒教材會成功,也絕對是家長有確實每天執行的關係, 我只是督促家長的人。
我是一位很龜毛的人…..我又親自陪讀2個差6歲的孩子, 使用這套教材2次,我是那麼認真, 徹底在執行成寒老師提的方法, 自己的兒子才有辦法1年就讀完。第1級讀完, 我自己幫他們兄妹倆做GEPT初級初試的實測一回,差了6年,同樣的動作, 2兄妹的聽力和閱讀一次就過關, 我自己就很安心地繼續操作下去, 從來沒有懷疑過。 因為這樣的一年成效, 足足贏了我之前在補習班教6年的成效。 我開心極了。 然後第2集第3集很認命但歡喜地用下去,哥哥在滿8年第3級讀到1半時, 多益衝到950分, 整個人生因為英文過門檻而逆轉! 是”不會讀書的中等生”的開始大逆轉!
Tony& Annie 兄妹的成效, 也一直讓我很驚喜。開實驗班這幾年, 磨掉我很多心力的是: 說好要跟, 卻不按照方法跟的家長,有些家長很早就離開,對彼此都好。 有些家長做不到又捨不得離開(家長總覺得跟在這班比跟在外面強很多, 硬跟著小考,盡量交錄影作業, 認為我不至於請孩子離開。殊不知我在他們沒用成寒的方法在學成寒教材, 我在面對她孩子所交出來的功課, 一直給改善方法是多耗我的心力? 我要看要聽要改,這些都要花很多時間, 發現孩子是硬背的, 聽力也沒練起來,我卻還要一直花時間要去拉他的程度去跟別人一致? 還要去看孩子錄的很不開心的作業影片….. 家長卻裝傻 一直跟我耗下去, 我實在是累到無法再和這種家長溝通。我已不想再耗心力去跟不懂成寒教材精隨讀書法的家長再多講什麼 …..這3年來私line公line 講得非常多了! 我不是以賺錢為目的的營利單位,我用很平價的收費提供最高品質的共學環境和我的時間和陪讀智慧,在驗收親子自學的其他時間, 我仍 花跟督促自己孩子一樣的心力去督促他們。我無法睜一隻眼閉一隻眼。 我絕對看得出, 感覺得出,問得出來, 家長在家有沒有落實用成寒教材的方法在學這套教材。 執行不來,就離開我的實驗班, 真的才能好聚好散。 如果, 有去看我家的成寒教材進度, 我這10年來的英文陪讀, 就會知道家庭和親子關係是我排在最重要的位置上。我用盡心思在排除跟孩子搶時間在學英文這件事的衝突,我的孩子不是主動的孩子, 大多數的孩子也是如此, 我也盡量教家長, 因為我知道, 有真的執行的, 會遇到那些問題, 如何避免或化解。
當我發現有家庭已不按照每天的進度去執行, 愈差愈遠, 學的已不是成寒教材, 而是跟我”做交代”的每次小考和錄影作業, 我怎麼會想再陪著這個家庭學第2集呢? 我當然知道家長硬驗收硬要孩子背去達到我的標準, 會多傷親子間的感情? 會多花時間? 這種方式傷害親子關係的代價太大!我很在意。我不想當害他們親子關係不愉快的罪人。 有跟緊的家庭,有按照成寒教材方法每天執行下的順利和孩子累積出來的英文力就是不同。即使他們在家督促孩子聽音檔,無法像我監督得這麼細致和嚴謹, 但也會有效果, 這也是我把他們第一集排成3年的進度的原因,我的家庭花一年就把第1集學完。 但因為他們的家庭生活形態,不是我的家庭狀況,我會陪孩子聽音檔, 這群家長們不會或無法, 他們就無法及時拉回或喚醒分心或發呆或摸魚的孩子做有效的聽, 光是聽力的成效就差Tony&Annie很多。 GEPT初級初試的模擬實測,就能讓跟不緊的家庭心服口服,每天聽力有落實的, 聽力成績就是偏高很多, 有同學的平均值可看。 但偏偏等到”能實測”快要過3年了。這3年間, 我藉由媽咪會議, 藉由公line 或私line , 請跟不緊, 沒有每天落實的媽咪改善作法,有些媽咪沒聽進去, 我真的盡力了。趁著要調查續上和購買第2級教材的時機, 狠心勸退, 緣分該結束就結束。
我花心力曾做的這一切, 我問心無愧。
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